I hope for your sake you can see what others can't.
What is it you think you see? More important- what do you hear when you talk to yourself? What are you saying? Is it of quality?
Consider a book for mind widening on this topic.
Shad Helmstetter
Recently, I had to write an accomplshment based resume. This was an exercise in something that I am not great at. I have trouble talking about myself. Like when I'm supposed to introduce myself in a new setting, I find it difficult. I struggle with meeting new people and being confident in myself.
I worked really hard to make my achievements be the key points. I found what worked the best for me was to think of my resume as a vehicle to sell a product. I just happened to be that product. Communicating the best parts of my product - me - made the most effective resume.
"Remember to be yourself " words not to live by unless you know who you are and how to be yourself. One day, I'm my kid's mom, one day I am Mark's wife, then I am Jeanne, Lorraine, and Marcel's little sister, and ...'s friend and on an on. I worry that I will become entwined in these personas and lose myself.
I hear from women in the same dynamic that they feel the same way. Who am I? "To thine own self be true"-great if you know who you are. Are you one person or a spicy blend of all.
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